FAMILY MATTERS IN THE GREAT WEALTH TRANSFER
Discussing plans for an inheritance before the inevitable happens makes for a less stressful outcome.
Discussing plans for an inheritance before the inevitable happens makes for a less stressful outcome.
At kitchen tables and in boardrooms across the country, Australian families are starting to solve a multi-trillion-dollar puzzle: how to pass on wealth to the next generation.
As the country’s Baby Boomers begin to enjoy retirement and many step out of the day-to-day operations of their businesses, they have time to consider the legacies they want to leave and how to help their children and grandchildren thrive after they have passed.
Australian women look set to inherit a significant chunk of the nation’s wealth and will shoulder a big responsibility in managing it for future generations. A March 2024 report by JBWere projected that women will become managers of 65 percent of the $5 trillion that is set to change hands in coming years.
This trend is one part of the phenomenon known as the “oldest daughter effect,” or the tendency for daughters to take a leadership and decision-making role within families.
Former JBWere Australia chief executive Maria Lykouras says oldest daughters often take on caring responsibilities as parents age, and parents in turn rely on them to help preserve and manage their wealth.
“They want that legacy to be managed in a way similar to how they thought about it and for the purposes that were important to them,” she says.
“They see the eldest daughter as the trusted person in the family that will continue that legacy and will take care of the broader family finances for everyone else.”
No matter who wealth is being passed onto, it’s important for all families to prepare for this moment. If you’ve ever read an Agatha Christie murder mystery or watched the siblings of fictional media mogul Logan Roy battle over his legacy in Succession, you know the level of drama that can emerge through the inheritance process.
It can crystallise family values, but if done carelessly can cause undue confusion, anger and hurt for loved ones.
Here are three essential rules experts say will help smooth the transition of wealth while making sure the next generation is properly prepared for the responsibilities and opportunities that lie ahead.
Wealth managers agree that the single biggest mistake they see families make is leaving it too late to have detailed conversations about how the wealth transition will work for them.
“The last thing that you want is for you to pass away and then the money gets into the hands of the children, but the children either don’t know what the money was, they don’t know where it is, or there are multiple children and they are all vying for it,” Lykouras says.
KPMG’s global leader of family business, Robyn Langsford, said she has seen families where adult children are in their 40s and 50s yet their parents have still not communicated with them about how wealth will be distributed when they pass.
“If you are part of a pool of siblings in that age group and you don’t have transparency about where the ultimate ownership is going to end up, that can lead to a lot of anxiety and tension in the sibling group,” she says.
Managing partner at Integro Private Wealth, Justin Gilmour, spends significant time speaking to both the parents and children well ahead of a transition of assets to clarify the priorities of both groups.
“What I think happens a lot of the time is that there are assumptions made, and those assumptions are incorrect,” he says.
“There are not open and frank discussions early enough… That breeds resentment.”
In many family groups, not everyone will be receiving an equal slice of the family wealth.
Advisors see families factoring in a range of issues when dividing assets, including the independent wealth of adult children and their involvement in family businesses.
The key, however, is explaining the reasoning behind the division ahead of time.
“Where it is going to be unequal, that person needs to be proactive in communicating that fact and also the reasons they have come to that decision,” Langsford says.
“The worst thing you can have is some family member feeling like their father or mother loved them less … but actually [the decision] could be due to something completely different.”
“One child might have sacrificed a lot more to further the family’s wealth, for example.”
Now is also the time to discuss family values and how the next generation will manage the assets in line with these.
“Most importantly, have conversations around: What is the purpose of the family’s wealth? Do they want to give money to charity? What do they want to do with the business?” Lykouras says.
It’s also important to think about the formal structures around your plan.
Grant Thornton’s national head of family business consulting, Kirsten Taylor-Martin, says too often families develop a blueprint for how the younger generation will take control of assets, but the wills and estate plans of older parents do not allow for this in practice.
“What you find is that so many families don’t actually make sure all their legal documentation makes that happen,” Taylor-Martin says.
“The estate plan has to be a crucial step in your succession planning process to make sure your vision comes to life.”
It’s also possible to link a formal document like a family constitution, which is not legally binding but sets out a plan for how decisions will be made and what will happen to the family business if there is one.
In some families, writing constitution documents has helped clarify the path forward.
“What it has done is ended all of those assumptions. It basically preserves family relationships.”
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The Federal Budget may have softened some of its proposed tax reforms, but it has exposed a bigger issue: too many families are relying on wealth structures that no longer reflect the realities of modern life.
For many Australians, the 2026 Federal Budget initially felt like a direct challenge to the way wealth is created, held and transferred between generations.
The headlines were immediate: changes to capital gains tax, reforms to discretionary trusts, restrictions on negative gearing and increased scrutiny of investment structures. Unsurprisingly, affluent families, business owners and investors began asking the same question:
Is the way we hold our wealth still fit for purpose?
In recent days, the government has announced several significant amendments following industry consultation and public feedback, including exempting testamentary trusts from the proposed 30 per cent minimum tax and expanding capital gains tax concessions for small businesses.
The backdown is welcome. But it also highlights something much bigger.
This Budget has accelerated a conversation that many Australian families have been postponing for years.
The conversation is not really about tax. It is about wealth stewardship.
For decades, Australians have built wealth through businesses, property, investments and careful long-term planning. Yet many families have not revisited the legal structures surrounding those assets in years, sometimes decades.
We often see clients who have spent years building significant wealth, only to discover their legal arrangements no longer reflect their current circumstances.
Their children are now adults. They may own multiple properties.
They may have sold a business, entered a second marriage, become grandparents or accumulated digital assets that did not exist when their original estate plans were prepared.
The trust that distributes income may need to be reconsidered. The bucket company may no longer be so attractive.
The Budget has simply exposed a reality that already existed: wealth structures cannot remain static while life continues to evolve.
Importantly, trusts themselves are not the issue.
Trusts are legitimate planning tools that provide flexibility, protection and continuity. When used appropriately, they allow families to adapt to changing circumstances over time.
And neither is tax the issue, really. Getting the fundamentals right is more important for long-term, sustainable wealth than a few favourable tax treatments around the edges.

The real issue is complacency.
Too often, families create structures and assume the job is done. It isn’t.
Estate planning is no longer a document you sign once and file away in a drawer. It is an ongoing process that should evolve alongside your life.
We are also seeing a broader shift in how Australians define wealth itself. It is no longer just the family home and an investment portfolio.
Modern wealth includes businesses, digital assets, cryptocurrency, intellectual property, frequent flyer points and increasingly complex family arrangements.
At the same time, Australians are living longer than ever before, meaning wealth may need to support multiple generations simultaneously. This creates new responsibilities and new risks.
How do you help your children enter the property market without exposing family wealth to relationship breakdowns?
How do you structure wealth so that it remains a source of opportunity rather than future conflict?
These are the questions families should be asking now.
The recent debate surrounding testamentary trusts also serves as an important reminder that policy decisions can have unintended consequences for vulnerable Australians. It is encouraging that the government has listened to feedback and clarified its position.
But the lesson remains: the wealth landscape is changing.
Increasingly, governments, regulators and tax authorities are paying closer attention to how wealth is held and transferred. That means families cannot afford to adopt a “set-and-forget” approach to their structures.
The families who will be best placed for the future are not necessarily those with the greatest wealth.
They are the families with the greatest clarity. Clarity around ownership, succession and governance. And clarity around how wealth will transition from one generation to the next.
Ultimately, preserving wealth is not about avoiding change.
It is about preparing for it.
Because the greatest risk is not change itself.
It is losing the ability to respond to it.
Anthony Hunt is Co-Founder of Wealth Lawyers and former COO of Westpac Private Bank. He advises business owners, investors and affluent Australian families on wealth protection, succession planning and intergenerational wealth transfer
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