Too expensive to date: how cost of living pressures are derailing the quest for love

More than one in three Australians admit they have spent more than they intended on a date to impress their partners or a new love interest. A Finder survey of 1,070 people found 14 percent have spent more than they could afford on dates, while a further 21 percent say they have also gone over budget but could afford to do so.

Finder’s money expert, Rebecca Pike, said: “Millions of people are finding that their simple quest to find love is derailing their financial wellbeing. Aussies have less disposable income in general due to the cost of living crisis, and spoiling a potential love interest or overspending on a date is adding to the money stress.”

The research found younger singles were more likely to go over budget on dates, with 23 percent of Gen Z respondents and 22 percent of Millennials spending more than they could afford versus just seven percent of Gen Xers and five percent of baby boomers.

Ms Pike said Aussies should start with simple, affordable dates with someone new.

“’Fake it until you make it’ is a risky dating strategy. You may get stuck with some spending habits and decisions that you’re paying off long after the romance has fizzled out.”

While many Australians are prepared to go over budget to woo a beau or belle, another survey shows some people are becoming less inclined to shout a round or pick up the bill when dining out and socialising with family and friends.

A survey of 2,000 Australians by NAB Economics found 54 percent prefer to split the bill these days, with this figure rising to 72 percent among 18 to 29 year-olds.

“Young Australians are embracing ‘loud budgeting’ and getting more comfortable with talking about their financials,” said NAB personal everyday banking executive, Kylie Young. “It isn’t surprising that extends to splitting the bill, as they confidently step away from the social pressure of ‘shouting a round’.”

The majority of older Australians are still paying for each other, with only 32 percent of over-65s saying today’s high cost of living made them more inclined to split the bill. Interestingly, splitting bills is least common among low-income earners (39 percent) and more common among high–income earners (63 percent). When separating the bill, almost four in 10 prefer one person to pay and the others to transfer their share. About three in 10 prefer to pay their share with a debit or credit card.

Making sure you claim everything you’re legitimately eligible for can have a big impact on your annual discretionary income. But do you know what you can claim?

What is tax deductible?

When completing your tax return, bear in mind that there are a number of tax deductions you can claim against expenses related to your work. What each person can claim will vary depending on their occupation. To make a deduction for a work-related expense, you need to have spent the money yourself without being reimbursed by work, and the cost needs to directly relate to earning your income. You’re also going to need a record to prove the expense, usually a receipt.

While travel expenses, home office expenses, education and mobile phone expenses are commonly claimed, there are a number of deductions often overlooked that you may be able to claim when completing your tax return.

Artwork

Regardless of why you bought your latest artwork, the Australian Taxation Office views artwork as both an investment and a depreciating asset, meaning you can claim it as a tax deduction. How much you can claim will be determined by the size of your business and whether you are an employee.

If you work from home, you can claim a deduction for your artwork up to the value of $300 as part of your home office expenditure. Small and medium sized business owners can make a much higher claim for artwork.

An apartment in another city

Investment properties purchased away from your home that you stay in when travelling for work can be claimed.

Under ATO guidelines, if you’re required to work away from home and you choose to rent or buy an apartment in the other work location rather than relying on hotel accommodation, you can claim a deduction for the work-related costs that apply to the apartment. This includes rent or interest on the mortgage.

Work handbag

Each year, you are allowed to claim a bag that you use for work. This could be a laptop bag or backpack used for carrying work-related items, but claiming a designer luxury handbag, may raise a few eyebrows at the ATO. If you carry your laptop, tablet and paperwork in a bag for work, then claim it. If you’re using it for gym equipment or your lunch, don’t.

COVID tests

The ATO will let you claim the cost of a COVID test if it was used to see whether you are sick and therefore unable to attend work. This is particularly the case if you’re in a customer-facing role and you need to purchase the test to stop the spread of the disease.

Man’s best friend

In some limited circumstances, you may be able to claim a deduction for the cost of buying and caring for a dog if they assist in your occupation. The two most common scenarios for this claim are farming and security reasons.

A caravan

The ATO allows for travel expense claims and there have been instances where taxpayers have claimed a caravan — and it was accepted. If you travel extensively for work and a caravan is saving you from paying for a hotel room, you may be able to apportion the deduction if it is used for work, rather than private use.

Meals away from home

If you’re travelling for work, you can claim the cost of meals when you travel and stay away from home overnight. You may also be able to claim a deduction for the cost of a meal you buy and consume when working overtime.

Media subscriptions

Many media publications are now subscription-based and can be deductible if they relate to your profession. This includes subscriptions to newspapers, professional magazines and podcasts that are linked to your profession.

Desk lamps and stationery

You don’t have to be running a business from home to make work-related claims. If you have a dedicated workspace at home where you’re doing a few hours of work at home a week, you can claim a number of related items, including lamps, stationery, a shredder and printer cartridges.

Protective clothing

If it’s related to your work, you can claim
the cost of buying items like fire resistant clothing, steel-capped boots, hi-vis vests or sun protection. This can apply to people working directly on site, like construction workers, but also related industries, such as engineers and architects who visit.

Depending on your industry, you can claim items that relate to your work, including a bullet proof vest if you’re a police officer or anything used that relates to your performance if you’re a professional athlete. Media professionals can also claim sunglasses if they are required to be out in the sun in the course of their work.

While you’re at it, you may also be able to claim the costs to clean occupation-specific clothing, so ask your tax accountant.

Tax accountancy fees

Last but not least, the fees you pay for the preparation of your annual tax return if you used a tax agent to prepare and lodge your tax return can be claimed on this year’s tax return.

The ATO has a number of online tools and calculators to help you calculate your deduction correctly, including work from home, self-education and car expenses.

Visit the ATO website and type ‘calculators’ into the search bar.